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Embarrassment to BJP as Ram Jethmalani terms Lord Ram a bad husband

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Posted: Nov 09, 2012 at 0913 hrs IST
Speaking at a function to launch a book on a man-woman relationship, BJP leader Ram Jethmalani said 'Ram was a bad husband... I don't like him at all'.

New Delhi In an embarrassment to BJP which has spearheaded the Ram Temple movement and Hindutva agenda, the party's Rajya Sabha member Ram Jethmalani termed Ram, the protagonist of Ramayana, as a "bad husband".

Speaking at a function to launch a book on a man-woman relationship, Jethmalani said "Ram was a bad husband. I don't like him at all. Just because some fisherman said something, he sent that poor woman (Sita) to exile."

He went on to take a jibe at Lakshman by saying he was "even worse". He said, "When Sita was abducted, Ram asked him to go and find her as she was abducted during his watch. Lakshman simply excused himself saying she was his sister-in-law and he never looked at her face, so he wouldn't be able to identify her," Jethmalani said.

Earlier, Jethmalani spoke against use of religion and said "today we are at the crossroads of the very fate of this planet. Religion has totally changed. Religion has produced terror. Religion has produced those who issue fatwas of murder..."

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Ram doesn't like Ram neither do I by Lakshya Batra on 14 Nov 2012

Worshipers of Ram may be lenient on him. Yet Ram was not on Sita. As for when the time arrived to choose between the two "dharmas" he chose to send his wife to exile just for the mental satisfaction of public. The same public then set his act as a precedent to further belittle women. Ram served his people. So much so that he forgot that awakening of the masses is what defines the duty of a king in true sense. And besides was it really difficult for him to not go to a second "Vanvas" for his wife who didn't even think for a moment before setting out with her husband to be equal partners in sorrow ? He could have handed the reigns over to Lakshman and Bharat who were proficient enough I am sure and could have moved out of Ayodhya with his wife. Which example is better i ask-"Ram a compliant ruler who gave into the mistakes made by the masses instead of correcting them" or "Ram- a devoted son, a thoughtful king a caring husband and now a trusting brother."

Not so purshottam by Not so purshottam on 09 Nov 2012

Mr. C.R. Sreenivasa lyengar's translation of Valmiki Ramayana says: " Though Rama had married Sita to be the queen, he married many other wives for sexual pleasure in accordance with the royal customs. (Ayodha Kandam 8th Chapter, page 28). (The term "Rama's wives" as been used in many places in Ramayan).

Embrassment by P.V.Namjoshi on 09 Nov 2012

Jai Hanuman! RAM Jethmalani whose name is also Ram (OMG) says Lord Ram was the worst husband. Perhaps wearer knows where the shoe pinches! I am also Purushottam that is Ram but my wife forms no such opinion. Thanks dear wife for showing that much of curtsey/mercy! Ram Jethmalani is right. He is an advocate having long standing experience at hand. Therefore he has a habit of seeing things or different facts from judgmental attitude that too from the angle of his client only Bajaj vespa type (in which engine is on one side). Advocates, judges, doctors, businessmen and other professional cannot see any fact from plane and simple point of view. Perhaps excepting few no one is exception. We see in things what we want to see in them. Sorry! We do not have a broad perception. Congress Chief from Gujarat Arun Modhwadia says Modi is monkey. I also share with him but from different point of view as I am also an advocate. Monkey means Hanumanji. Even to day we see to a monkey with very high respect believing Hanuman as his ancestor. Therefore I say Modi is Monkey@ Hanuman. Certainly Congress is Ravana who has abducted Sita that is the democracy. Janata (public) is subject of the democracy. Now Hanuman will come to rescue Sita that is he will rescue democracy from the clutches of Ravana. Let people be ready to fight with Ravana and assist Hanuman in the same way as squirrels helped Ram to build bridge. Wish Hanumanji all success.

God is One by satnam singh on 09 Nov 2012

Guru Gobind Singh:: "ek murat aneik darshan, keen roop aneik, khel khel akhel khelan, ant ko fhir ek" There r different faces/transforms of GOD in this world and we all r the in the game which is beeing played by the God, and finally their is only one God (Akaal)

Ram by Indian on 09 Nov 2012

We have respect for Ram Jethmalani but he need not expose his ignorance of Ramayana with his silly comments just to get publicity.Oflate gadkari, Jethmalani and all BJP leaders are making unwarranted comments instead of fighting against Corrupt Congress and how to give clean administration to common man

Ram by Shadaan on 11 Mar 2013

Rama disfigured and mutilated many women by cutting off her noses, breasts, ears etc., and tortured them (Soorpanaki, Ayomuki). Rama said, "Women should not be trusted" and that "Secrets should not be confided to the wife" (Ayodhya kandam, Chapter 100). Sambuka was slain (by Rama) because he was making penance which was forbidden to him by Vedas as he was a "Shudra" (Uttara kanadam, Chapter 76). Looking at is hand Rama said the Sanskrit slogan "O right hand, you kill this Asche Shudra unhesitatingly as killing this Shudras is the only way to get back the life of the deceased Brahmin boy." Are you not one of the limbs of Rama? (Valmiki Ramayana) Note: This Rama, who mercilessly took away the life of Sambuca for no other fault than that of making penance, is held as the Avatar (incarnation) of Vishnu (God)! If there were kings like Rama alive now, alas! What would be the plight of those who are called "Shudras?". If Rama loved Sita so much and Sita is held as an ideal Hindu wife, can Hindu women tolerate their husbands leaving them in forest for the years? Rama left Sita in forest after she became pregnant and she delivered her two kids in forest. (DR. B. R. Ambedkar: Riddles in Hinduism Maharashtra Govt. Publication, 1987).

Rama was a bad hubby - Ram Jethmalani by Raoul on 09 Nov 2012

I am proud to be a Hindu. My religion is my personal view and outlook and no one can corner me with edicts, fatwas or whatever. I am liberated as i have my own dialogue with God in privacy, not through organised religion which is either business or a terrorist supporting network. I am proud that our religion can be discussed and no Blasphemy laws enacted against Ram Jethmalani. i am proud that while I may feel upset at someone uttering against Ram the Lord, I know that my God(s) are above these earthly blasphemers and I can live in peace. My gods ask us to love all humanity thru vasudev Kutumbakam. I am however aghast at the torching by some Hindus of dalit villages in Tamil nadu ....this is horrible. The law should arrest, convict these people, who are spoiling our religion thru caste system and who are barbarians- Talibani mindset that has started gripping Hindus- created mad lumpen groups like Ram Sene who think they can behave like the Police Of Vice in Arabia

shame on the BJP ram; by a proud hindu on 09 Nov 2012

Every religious stories have its flaws to talk about them just to hit the headlines is pathetic.I am amased to know he has problems only with "ramayana".I dare him 2 talk about the flaws in islam or any other relegion.He has hurt my sentiments and millions of others i presume.

Hundred percent truth by khan on 09 Nov 2012

I am 100% with Mr. Ram Jethmalan, I admire this guy for being bold and practical, marriage is relationship of trust. How can this Adarsh Purush mistrust a wife who has been with him during thick and thins of life.

shame on the BJP ram; by A proud hindu on 09 Nov 2012

Every religious stories have its flaws to talk about them just to hit the headlines is pathetic.I am amased to know he has problems only with "ramayana".I dare him 2 talk about the flaws in islam or any other relegion.He has hurt my sentiments and millions of others i presume.

think before you speak?i think jethemalani is completly effeted by kali yuga. by veena on 09 Nov 2012

i just want to say jethmalani that he does'nt have that much of intellegence to judge the character of lord "RAMA". At the first He was the king and for the king each and everyone is equal and jethmalani jee you need some education would like to inform you that person was not a fisherman it was a "Dhobhi" washerman who said this if you don't know about Ramayana u have no right to say anything who r u to judge our god? Judge yourself first that is enough for u.one thing i want to advice that we are creation of god and we do not have that much of thougths to judge our god.one thing i would like to tell you one famus statement that suits u well "vinaash kaale vipreet buddhi"

idiot jethmalini by KALAKARA DEHURY on 09 Nov 2012

jethmalini advocates for corrupt ,he is aged ,losing his brain giving nonsense statement

We Hindus are stupid by Aakar Mathur on 09 Nov 2012

All respect to Ram Jethmalani. Religion should not hold a special place. It is not special and greater. Everything should be questioned including fictitious non-existent characters like Ram, Laxman and all others. These are just stroies. Listen up Hindus, do not be influenced by what your religious masters tell you. Rise up, be educated and by that i mean read your religious books thoroughly and find out the truth. Stop believing in fantasy theories. God does not exist. Religion produces terror and violence and nothing else. There is no proof of the presence of God. Stop fighting over your stupid fairy tales.

Wake up by vicky on 09 Nov 2012

Lovely thought Aakar I like your comment but not only Hindus every religion are believing in fantasy theories.

fight againt ram by andy on 09 Nov 2012

mr jethmalani i pay the money to fight agaist ram pls throw this guy from bjp party

THE SWEETEST NAME by YKYPRASAD on 09 Nov 2012

Let Ramjethmalaniji check with saint Thyagarajar and other Sangeetha Vidwans the power of Rama Nama. He has to experience it by reciting the name with devotion and not with bad comments.Understand Rama desended on earth to to teach us what is Dharmic life and we have to lead Dharmic life. He is Absolute and cannot be commenented upon. Recite His name , experience the divinity and get Salvation. Spritual world is beyond material.

Jethmalan is nothing to comments on Lord Ram by Tej on 09 Nov 2012

The Hindus are very liberal but that doesn%u2019t mean that anybody can comments anything just because that statement belongs or against the Hindu community. If such statement made other than Hindu community it become major violence through country.

Character of Jethmalani by Mahesh on 09 Nov 2012

The person who defends terrorists free of cost, the person who defends corrupts and uses his status as MP and ex- minister to speak loudly in public, the person who was once respected as legal luminary, has forgotten that he gains respect for his good deeds and such anti religion utterances will harm him. He has been able to speak such things about the ideologies of a tolerant Hindu religion. Can he dare to express his reservations about other religions like Jews and Muslims in public... he will have to confine himself to some remote place till his lat breath as Salman Rushdie and others are doing. A film by a crazy person had made whole world rise against his nation but in India, the great politicians and the national leaders ignore the feelings of the majority community only to garner votes ... shame on the people who speak on the topics which are not their forte...

Lord Sri Ram is inconceivable by Santhosh on 09 Nov 2012

Just by becoming Top Lawyer or scientist or any big public figure, doesn't mean that he is intelligent enough to comment on Absolute or GOD or Sri Ramachandra, who came to earth and behaved like human beings, but also did so many super natural things like making the huge stone to float in the water and constructing the bridge to lanka. Lord Ram cannot be understood by such lawyers or any scientist by their tiniest of tiniest intelligence they have.Lord is inconceivable, he is above our tiny intelligence. Lord Actions when he was in this world were transcedental it cannot be understood by such so called intelligent peoples of the world. You can only understand God by Devotion and love towards him.

Ram Jethmalani on Maryada purushottam Ram by Ashok Kumar Arya on 09 Nov 2012

Shri Ram Jethmalani does not know anything about Ramayan. He must see Balmiiki Ramayan. Shri Ram never exiled Sita ji. Secondly Ram did not ask Laxman to search Sita alone. The present context relate to jwelery dropped by Sita on Rishmuk Parvat during her abduction Then only laxman denied to identify Armlet as he never gave attention to Sita's arms etc. He recognised toe ring of Sita as he touch the feet of Sita daily. This reference describe greatness of indian culture which can never be understand by Jeth malani ji. He should not comment on the subject of which he does not know ABCD of.

Elubu illada nalige don't speak about lord Sriram by shreekantha Bhadri on 09 Nov 2012

I think this is the time of world end, because see the daring of a old budda Ram jeth malani said about Lord Sriram, and I want to ask his mother and father for why she kept this fellows name Ram. Lord Sriram is a god and what is the prefixed that one only happened, Lord Laxmana is a avathara of Shesha, and if anybody speak about lord rama and about things of ramayana its the end of their own life and if we not opposed it will effect to us also, because Lord Hanuman never listen a single word against Lord Rama, I request to Ramjeth malani, to ask sorry for this other wise it will be heavy for his life. I request sri Advaniji and sri modhiji to remove him from BJP for ever. and he should not entertaine in any manner. I am telling that to Ram jeth malani to ask sorry for say bad words about Lord Sriram. other wise it will be heavy for him. Om Sriram rama ramethi rame rame manorame sahasra nama tattulyam sri rama nama varanane. Shreekantha Bhadri Davangere

Not so purshottam by prad on 09 Nov 2012

king rama was a clear victim of then brahmanical cult. or why would he knock up sita and send her to forest to delvier his twins luv-kush at valmiki's hut. Not so maryadam purshottam dear rama, what man would send his wife to fire to prove her chastity. Only a lame duck king can do that. Some useless aryans jumbled up mythology and feeding us in 21st century.

Dumbass by Shishir Katote on 09 Nov 2012

This person is creating controversial statements just to come in the limelight

His name is Ram by Indian on 09 Nov 2012

Poor fellow I pity this guy. His name itself is Ram!He has no choice but to hate his own name.

Mr Ram Jethmalani needs some education by Ajay on 09 Nov 2012

I think Mr Ram Jethmalani needs some education on the time & context of an incidence to understand & appreciate it. Lord Ram lived during the era of Satya Yuga, a period during which the ruler would not allow its Praja (People) to raise slightest doubt about their ruler. Hence Lord Rama sent Sita Mata to exile, to restore confidence of his people. But Mr Jethmalani, you are in Kali Yuga. In this period, the ruler is least bothered about its Praja. Even when the CAG indicts any ministry, the Minister refuse to resign. Even when people demand for a particular legislation our so called elected representatives refuse to enact that legislation. So Mr Jethmalani, do not comment on the action of Satya Yuga when you live in Kali Yuga.

What non-sense by Srinivas on 09 Nov 2012

the author has the following assumptions: 1. Each and every person in BJP has the same beliefs. This is completely wrong...in BJP people of similar (not exact) beliefs are together...with an aim for development of India (Bharat). 2. Coming to epics, there are lot of Hindus who have differing views of Rama, Lakshmana and Sita....if one of the views is expoused...it is not a earthquake.

Be professional by Vithal on 09 Nov 2012

Dear Editor, What is wrong with you? Every person has a right to have opinion about anyone including God. How come personal opinions of a person embarrass the party he belongs to? I still cannot belive that IE was started by Ramanath Goenka. He took on most powerful if they were wrong or did corruption. Instead of going after powerful and corrupt, you are wasting your energy in chasing weak. Shame on you. Thats why I stopped reading paper version of IE. I had subscribed to IE paper version. I found that editors and others are toeing the line of Govt and party in power even when corruption is involved. Editors are being awarded Padma Awards. Thanks, Vithal

Be professional by kumar on 09 Nov 2012

Same for me too I hold sane opinion like u

Rama, a bad husband by A.Ramanna on 09 Nov 2012

Sitha Maaji said in Sundarakanda in Ramayana to Ravana, Ravana, you think you seperated me from Ravan. But Like sun light cannot be seperated from Sun, Corruption cannot be seperated from Politicians I cannot be seperated from Rama. Unlike present politicians who never bother about people's opinion, They shown a Dharam and stayed away from each other. Don't comment without knowing about great personalities.

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